After the #party’s over: #guilt #regret #acceptance

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So, the Moveable Feast of Eostre, the goddess of spring fertility, is upon us once again. It’s Easter. We have a full moon, rabbits & chickens, chocolate & sweet fruit buns with a cross baked into the top. For some religions, there are other, more sombre & deeply significant symbols associated with this part of our annual calendar. For most of us, there are 4 days off work, at a time of year when the moon is full, when the day & the night are almost of equal length, with the equinox falling just under 4 weeks before Eostre in 2014, on March 20th. The weather is generally pretty ‘liveable’, whatever hemisphere of this bounteous Earth we are living in.

The stage is set for a time of rest & relaxation, of time with family & friends, of contemplation, & of feasting. In our Northern hemisphere heritage & tradition, even though we are now living in the Southern hemisphere, the annual cycle away from the darkness & deprivation of winter means it’s time to make special purchases of foods that we normally reserve for special occasions: weddings, parties, birthdays, anniversaries. Some observe religious abstinence of some food for part of this time; but all spend at least part of this time feasting.

For about 38 years, our Easter has involved spending time with our extended family. In the early days, these Easter gatherings were held at our house in a small inland country town. We actually sent out invitations, & at first our brothers & sisters & our own parents came, bringing children, the occasional great grandparent, & the occasional dog. We needed caravans & tents for everyone to be able to sleep under cover, & occasionally the bathroom & septic tank struggled to cope. Luckily we were only a short walk from the Public utilities. The cousins bonded for life.

Later, once we acquired our scruffy little fibro beach shack, all the growing cousins brought friends; girlfriends, boyfriends. Meals were mostly eaten outside, huddled away from the sea breezes in a cold year, or gloriously somnolent in sunshine in a warm year. That’s the thing about Easter: it’s a Moveable Feast, so the weather can be like the end of summer; or it can be like the beginning of winter; or even both. We still needed a caravan or a tent some years, but bunks, sofa beds, mattresses on the floor, two showers & an outdoor hose, & two toilets helped a great deal. The septic tank needed regular emptying.

I remember a lot of laughter from those years. For most of those 38 years we were at the beach shack, & our time was taken up with sandcastles, swimming, searching rock pools for little crabs, midnight Jetty fishing excursions, sailing, rowing in a kayak or canoe. Food was abundant of course, as were leftovers. We played cards with gum nuts for stakes, Coon can, Pontoon, snap.

Andrew's tender
Andrew’s tender

Nowadays our eldest daughter brings her family & we spend about 5 days at the shack. This year, because of the school holidays & other plans our family holiday ended on Good Friday. Traffic on the road to Adelaide was building up, & so they left before lunch today.

Our party this year included a full eclipse of the Moon, two red moons in a row, sunsets & dawns that were peacefully beautiful. Oh & the beginnings of a mouse plague. We swam in the sea, laughed, played games, built sandcastles & lego cities. We spotted our resident gecko, still skittering about inside the shack. We put down mouse bait, & threw out one little corpse. We enjoyed the fun of a 5 year old who wakes bursting with energy at 6.30 a.m. & wants to play baby pelicans (learning to fly & land) baby galahs, or baby seagulls. We enjoyed the seriousness of a tall 15 year old, who wants to share his thoughts & opinions about a myriad of topics. Both children are bursting with the joy of life.

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Sure, we did enjoy some great, simple, homecooked meals. We didn’t buy takeaway. We didn’t eat chocolate. We didn’t have any chocolate with us. There are 3 people with diabetes in our party, & we aren’t that fussed about chocolate anymore. After the party’s over, what happens? There are the mechanics to be gone through: cleaning up, working out what to do with leftovers, perhaps extra sheets & towels to wash, if you’ve had house guests as we’ve had. But there is no time to waste on regret, guilt, or ‘shouldn’t haves’. The motto of ‘Acceptance‘, ‘going with the flow’, is the mantra that my daughter repeated many times over the past 5 days. ‘Don’t sweat the small stuff’ in life, whether it’s about food, children’s behaviour, TV programmes, the timing of how a day runs on holiday. It’s OK to change your mind, & also to accept that in many cases whatever decision you make is just fine. Managing diabetes is organised, stressful. Reducing stress can be as simple as letting go of the ‘need’ to be the one who manages, who seeks to ensure that everything is covered. It’s actually OK for things on holiday to not be tightly planned & organised.

Technically,our party is over for this year. Last night I was woken from sleep at 1 a.m. by the sound of young girls laughing out the front. Now I hear the sound of other people’s holiday long weekend just starting. People have arrived, having made a long drive from somewhere. My elderly neighbour on one side is from the Adelaide Hills, & he is having a Prawn feast with his extended family, including a new great grandchild. His elderly red dog is resting outside in the shade. On the other side, the young family of the second son is cooking up a Sausage sizzle. Their dog is a middleaged lab, all protective when he needs to be, & all tail waggingly friendly when he doesn’t. Everywhere I hear children playing, birds calling, wind, the sound of the sea on the shore. Out the front, two little boys aged about 9 are walking past, wearing shorts & fleecy jackets.

We have decided to stay on a little. I have been very unwell, & am still moving more slowly than usual.There is a lot to do. We have no need to rush back to the city, where our daily lives are. And it’s still so beautiful here. Our original plan was to head back today, but slowly our plan evolved into a different one. Acceptance includes being flexible, open to what life brings.

happiness comes from letting go of guilt
happiness comes from letting go of guilt

carpe diem

Helen

Helen Wilde is a Senior Counsellor with Diabetes Counselling Online. She has been the parent of a person with diabetes since 1979, and has lived with Type 2 diabetes herself since 2001.

 

 

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A closer D-look at Australian Dietary Guideline 3

Delicious snacks can fit easily into Guideline 3 with a little help from your friends <3

To date we’ve covered quite a few topics from our Australian Dietary Guidelines including Guideline 1‘Diabetes and healthy weight with a twist’, Guideline 5‘Food safety – a major consideration in the heat of the Aussie summer’, and a few from Guideline 2 – eating a wide variety from the 5 food groups: , 2 blogs on dairy foods (1 and 2), water, wholegrains, legumes, protein, and there’s more to come in this area. So today I thought we’d look at Guideline 3 which is particularly important for those of us with diabetes. It is:

“Limit intake of foods containing saturated fat, added salt, added sugars and alcohol”

Of course the reasonings behind this guideline are based on solid evidence about the relationship of these types of foods with heart health issues and other chronic health conditions that are also strongly associated with higher risk factors for those of us with diabetes. I don’t want to be negative and lecture you on how bad these foods are, but rather remind you about how to avoid them and show how swapping them for better options will help to keep our hearts, diabetes control and general wellbeing in good working order, whilst still allowing us to enjoy treats every now and then.

A good starting place would be to have a quick read over of a couple of previous Diabetes Counselling Online blogs including ‘Energy In/Energy Out – understanding how much you need and where you get it’, and ‘Confused about fats & sugars? The answer is not black and white’.

Guideline 3 has the most words of all the guidelines because it explains 4 different parts. We’ll take a quick look at the 4 parts, and I’m sure we’ll return to many of them in future blogs too:

1. Limit intake of foods high in saturated fat such as many biscuits, cakes, pastries, pies, processed meats, commercial burgers, pizza, fried foods, potato chips, crisps and other savoury snacks.

– Replace high fat foods which contain predominantly saturated fats such as butter, cream, cooking margarine, coconut and palm oil with foods which contain predominantly polyunsaturated and monounsaturated fats such as oils, spreads, nut butters/pastes and avocado.

– Low fat diets are not suitable for children under the age of 2 years.

2. Limit intake of foods and drinks containing added salt.

– Read labels to choose lower sodium options among similar foods.

– Do not add salt to foods in cooking or at the table.

3. Limit intake of foods and drinks containing added sugars such as confectionary, sugar-sweetened soft drinks and cordials, fruit drinks, vitamin waters, energy and sports drinks.

4. If you choose to drink alcohol, limit intake. For women who are pregnant, planning a pregnancy or breastfeeding, not drinking alcohol is the safest option.

It really important that we remember that we eat whole foods rather than specific nutrients, and don’t get hung up on those specific nutrients but understand how eating fresh minimally processed foods will contribute to our greater wellbeing. Dr David Katz explains this point very well in a recent article he wrote for the Huffington Post where he goes into some detail on this point. I encourage you to read it as his words make very good sense.

And last week’s blog on Protein & Diabetes – do you get the balance right? explained that: “As we can add 2.5 serves of ‘discretionary’ choices to our daily food intake, the protein section is a good area to add one or two extra serves from, as from a diabetes point of view protein doesn’t have much effect on our blood glucose levels and will save us from getting hungry and potentially damaging our wellbeing plan. Remember to beware of the processed ones!“

The Guidelines tell us that “Discretionary foods should only be consumed sometimes and in small amounts. While discretionary foods can contribute to the overall enjoyment of eating, often as part of social activities and family or cultural celebrations, if their intake is not reduced, most Australians need to greatly increase physical activity to ‘burn up’ the additional energy (kilojoules) from discretionary foods to help achieve and maintain a healthy weight (see Guideline 1).”

Now I’ll quickly run through the 4 areas that we’re watching in Guideline 3 (more detail can be found in the guidelines document here):

1) Saturated Fat

The best advice comes straight from the guidelines: “The Guidelines are realistic and practical, allowing a small amount of unsaturated oils and spreads to reflect culinary behaviour, while ensuring that the energy these foods provide are within the total energy constraints of the diet. Dietary fat included in the Foundation Diets comes mainly from fish, lean meats, poultry and milk, yoghurt and cheese products, with a small allowance of unsaturated oils/fats/spreads. Where more energy is required in moving from Foundation to Total Diets, additional serves of these and/or other foods containing fats can be included, such as additional nuts and seeds, unsaturated spreads and oils, and/or discretionary foods.

“However, where possible, the best choices are foods where unsaturated fats exist in greater quantities than saturated fats. As well, people who are shorter, smaller or sedentary may have little or no scope within their usual dietary patterns for any discretionary foods and drinks. The extra energy (kilojoules) provided by these foods and drinks is an additional reason to limit them.”

I won’t go into more detail than this on the topic of fats, as there’s just too much to cover. I hope though that you have a good feel that if you’re adding discretionary choices to your everyday diet, you’re better off adding from the 5 food groups than including processed and sweetened foods and drink that will not add any nutritional benefit to your intake.

2) Salt

You’ll notice that the week before last with Salt Awareness Week covered the sodium issues in some detail in the first half of the blog ‘Twin reasons for d-awareness this week: salt and coeliac’. I encourage you to re-read that as there were many tips included.

3) Sugars

As people with diabetes we are usually quite aware of sugars in our diets, and my previous Diabetes Counselling Online blogs on the glycemic index will help you if you’re not sure here. I would say this one’s pretty obvious for us, so I won’t go into more detail than sharing what the guideline says:

“Sugars are carbohydrates – examples include fructose, glucose, lactose and sucrose. When sugars occur naturally in foods such as fruit, vegetables and dairy products, they are referred to as intrinsic sugars. However, the major source of sugar in the Australian diet is sucrose from sugar cane that is added to foods and is termed extrinsic sugar. Sucrose is widely used in processed foods and drinks as a sweetener and also plays a role as a flavour enhancer and preservative.”

I also like this sentence from the guidelines (other than for hypo treatments of course!): “From a nutritional perspective, good health can be achieved without the addition of sugars in any form to the diet.”

4) Alcohol

The guidelines explain best that: “For many people, an alcoholic drink is a regular and enjoyable part of meals. In terms of nutrition, alcohol is uniquely the only substance that is both a food providing energy and a drug affecting brain function. For these reasons, advice on alcohol is included in these Guidelines.

“Drinking alcohol has health, social and economic costs and benefits for both individuals and populations. There is some evidence that people who drink small quantities of alcohol may have better health outcomes than those who do not drink, but such findings have been challenged. Heavy drinking has no health benefits and studies consistently report that abstainers have better health outcomes than heavy drinkers.”

This topic of alcohol really needs a blog of its own to do it justice, so I’ll just finish here with the paragraph from the guidelines that is aimed at people with diabetes:

“As alcohol and hypoglycaemia have independent but additive effects on cognitive function and behaviour, it is recommended that people with type 1 or type 2 diabetes abstain from alcohol if they plan to drive. Alcohol worsens medical conditions associated with diabetes, such as liver disease, hypertension and advanced neuropathy. People with type 1 or type 2 diabetes may need to take special precautions when drinking and should discuss alcohol use with a health professional.”

Making the Swap to healthier choices

There’s quite a lot of support out there if you’re looking for help to cut down on these elements of your diet. Of course, the obvious choice is to see an Accredited Practising Dietitian who will walk through your eating pattern with you and make suggestions to suit your personal tastes and medical requirements.

The Dietitians Association of Australia provides a helpful resource that offers Ten Smart Swaps For Every Occasion. They also have a section on the website called Smart Eating For You, including this terrific list of Smart Eating Tips.

Diabetes Counselling Online provides a free e-counselling service to all Australians with diabetes and their friends and families, so you can register on our website to do that. You can also join in with one of our closed Facebook groups such as ‘Diabetes & Food – let’s celebrate it!’ or ‘Diabetes Weight Matters’ where you’ll find me around as their Social Media Dietitian. These groups are very popular as the members also have awesome ideas to help you make some healthier swaps.

I think that covers Guideline 3, but you can see there’s lots of extra reading in there to come fully up to speed with it. This again reinforces the importance of having personalised consultations with an Accredited Practising Dietitian.

In the meantime, please let me know here or on the Facebook groups if you have any queries, or would like any parts explained in greater detail. It would be my pleasure. :)

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Diabetes and healthy weight with a twist

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Hi Peeps with D!

This week I thought it would be good timing to discuss the First of the Five guidelines in the Australian Dietary Guidelines and what having a healthy weight means to us with diabetes.

The twist is that this Monday (today!) marks the start of Australia’s Healthy Weight Week (AHWW) we’ll take a closer look at what the Dietitians Association of Australia has planned for our population to help them achieve a healthy weight, what the Australian Dietary Guidelines say about it and most importantly, why a healthy weight is especially important to work towards when you have diabetes (all types included) as we do.

When you’re at your peak Wellness-wise, chances are you’ll be at the right weight for you too. And of course understanding Food and how it helps you towards wellness, combined with physical activity, makes a big difference. It can be quite a steep learning curve and is one of the reasons that I can find something to write about in my blog each week for us with D as the social media dietitian for Diabetes Counselling Online. :)

Guideline One reads:

“To achieve and maintain a healthy weight, be physically active and choose amounts of nutritious foods and drinks to meet your energy needs.

• Children and adolescents should eat sufficient nutritious foods to grow and develop normally. They should be physically active every day and their growth should be checked regularly.

• Older people should eat nutritious foods and keep physically active to help maintain muscle strength and a healthy weight.”

There is extremely good evidence to support that First guideline. The Australian Dietary Guidelines document explains this well: “Overweight and obesity are associated with increased risk of type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, hypertension, metabolic syndrome, some cancers, musculoskeletal conditions, respiratory conditions, sleep apnoea, gall bladder disease, hernia, reproductive disorders, urinary incontinence, fatty liver disease, and depression and other mental health disorders. About 70% of people who are obese have at least one established comorbidity, resulting in medical costs that are about 30% greater than those of their healthy weight peers. Compared to having a BMI of 18.5–25 kg/m2, having a BMI of 30–35 kg/m2 reduces life expectancy by 2–4 years, and having a BMI of 40–45 kg/m2 reduces it by 8–10 years. The relative increase in mortality rate attributable to obesity tends to decline with age. Mortality and morbidity are also associated with the amount of weight gained in adult life.”

It goes on to remind us that “Many obesity-related conditions are preventable, and several are at least partially reversible through weight loss achieved by adopting a nutritious dietary pattern and active lifestyle.” which is why this special week has been arranged by the Dietitians Association of Australia.

Australia’s Healthy Weight Week (AHWW)

Fitting in perfectly for our look at Dietary Guideline No. 1, AHWW will be celebrated this week and runs from Monday 17th to the 23rd February 2014. You’ll see there are many events being arranged by Dietitians across the country this week designed to help people achieve their own healthy weight. Click here to look out for the ones near you!

AHWW Events

The AHWW website also offers lots of tools to help you work towards your healthy weight including an e-newsletter, a guide to eating well including strategies to help keep you on track, information about physical activity, a wonderful cook book with easy to cook healthy recipes, a ‘fad-free’ meal plan and a whole lot more!

AHWW Sprout cookbook

Do You Tweet?

If any of you are on Twitter, the DAA is also hosting a Tweetchat this Wednesday between 8pm and 9pm Sydney/Melbourne time on the topic of ‘Inspiring adults to participate in healthy home cooking and to choose the correct portion sizes.’ You can read more about it here, and they’ve also provided a ‘cheat-sheet’ so you can learn the basics before joining in the conversation. I’ll be there as @SallyMDietitian to represent us with Diabetes so it would be awesome if some of you came along as well.

Being a healthy weight is beneficial for our diabetes

The American Diabetes Association (2013) lists a key strategy for all people with diabetes as ‘Portion control should be recommended for weight loss and maintenance.’ The main reason for this strategy is that increased body weight can lead to increased insulin resistance and defects in insulin secretion (AIHW 2008).

The Australian Institute of Health & Welfare tells us that ‘in 2007–08, almost 520,000 people with diabetes (58%) also had cardiovascular disease, based on self-reported data from the National Health Survey (NHS)’. Being overweight dramatically increases your risk of developing a heart condition. I hope you know that we all need to look after our heart health.

Then there’s grade A (the best) evidence that is recommended by the American Diabetes Association (2013) for those with type 2 diabetes under ‘Energy Balance’ that reminds us, “Modest weight loss may provide clinical benefits (improved glycemia, blood pressure, and/or lipids) in some individuals with diabetes, especially those early in the disease process.” This relates to increased insulin resistance for those above their healthy weight range.

Sometimes it can be harder for people with diabetes to lose weight for various reasons including some of the medications prescribed, and the American Diabetes Association Nutrition Therapy Recommendations for the Management of Adults with Diabetes (2013) adds, “A number of factors may be responsible for increasing adiposity in people with diabetes, including a reduction in glycosuria and thus retention of calories otherwise lost as an effect of therapeutic intervention, changes in food intake, or changes in energy expenditure.”

And it should not be forgotten that being underweight can also lead to severe health issues relating to malnutrition, so be careful to let your health care team know if you’re losing weight unintentionally.

Of course eating well by following the Australian Dietary Guidelines and learning from the dietitian written blogs provided each Monday through Diabetes Counselling Online will help to improve our overall health knowledge which should also improve our diabetes management results.

If you have any concerns about your own wellness or weight, it may be useful to register for a personalised e-counselling session with one of our Diabetes Counselling Online dietitians – a free service provided for all Australians with diabetes, with only a small charge for those from other countries. Click here to register or find out more.

Hoping that you benefit from the suggestions made through AHWW over the next week or so, and please let me know if there are any questions or issues that you’d like further clarification on.

Wishing you all good health! Sally :)

Sally Marchini is the Social Media Dietitian with Diabetes Counselling Online, owner of her private practice (Marchini Nutrition), has had type 1 diabetes for close to 40 years and coeliac disease for many years too.

 

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Planning your meals makes healthy eating easier!

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Many of us with diabetes (regardless of type) struggle to maintain a healthy weight, and although I like to make clear that my focus is on Wellness rather than weight, it can be helpful to improve your wellness by ensuring that you’re eating well in accordance with the Australian Dietary Guidelines for Adults (page 2). If we can improve our wellness, then our diabetes management will also be improved – it’s a Win Win!

In today’s blog we’ll talk about the benefits of improving your wellbeing through meal planning and shopping to a list, understanding why it’s important, and we’ll talk about some ways to make it happen.

One of our Diabetes Counselling Online members made an excellent and valid comment about the benefits of meal planning and shopping to a list. She said:

“My sister (non-diabetic) and I try to write a shopping list at home with only healthy foods on it (no junk, apart from Dark Ghana 72% Whittakers chocolate, our one reward) and then stick to it when we go to the supermarket.

It works wonders!! And yeah if you avoid the sweets isles etc makes it much easier! If you don’t see it you don’t crave it as much I find.

There’s so many benefits to this way of shopping too:
1. SAVE MONEY!
2. SAVE TIME!
3. HEALTHY EATING is easier!”

Research published last year in the journal Nutrition & Diabetes offers a simple but cost-effective solution to the issue of obesity: following detailed meal plans and shopping with a pre-determined grocery list, containing just the items needed for the planned meals.

The study’s objective was: “to analyse whether pre-commitment interventions that facilitate healthier diets are a cost-effective approach to tackle obesity.”

In conclusion it found that: “Our findings suggest grocery shopping to a predetermined list combined with SBT is a cost-effective means for reducing obesity and its related health conditions.”

The paper makes a valid point that I’m sure many of us can relate to: “The behavioural economics literature recognises that very often, people’s actual behaviour departs significantly from their intended behaviour. For example, many consumers know all too well that overeating and under-exercising will lead to weight gain and increased risk of chronic illness. Many consumers take the further step of forming an intention to improve their diet and increase activity levels. However, in many cases impulsiveness or poor self-control leads people to behave in a manner that departs from their good intentions.5 This has been described in the consumer behaviour literature as a struggle between the want self and the should self,6 or between the psychological forces of desire and willpower.7

According to an article in The Conversation, “Previous studies have shown that overweight or obese people in standard behavioural therapy who planned meals and shopped to a list lost around 0.67kg a month more than those who received just behavioural therapy.”

So a great way around this issue to make a meal plan for the week ahead and write a shopping list to reflect it. It may sound like a tiresome exercise, but in fact won’t take long and may make a huge difference to your wellbeing as well as to your pocket!

All you need are some easy balanced meal ideas to choose from in the first place. When you combine the thoughts that a balanced plate has about a quarter of the space with a protein-based food, a quarter with a (hopefully low-GI) carb-based food and the rest (half) filled with non-starchy vegetables, with the Australian dietary guidelines of how many of each food group you should have in each day, it should help you along the way. Trying to choose a medium sized, rather than a larger plate also helps.

Some easy balanced meals that are flexible and changeable for variety are as simple as a piece of barbequed or grilled meat/fish/poultry/tofu etc with a low-GI/high fibre carb source such as basmati rice, quinoa, sweet potato, corn on the cob, etc and a load of steamed/microwaved/roasted non-starchy vegetables or a mixed salad. There are some wonderful ideas for veggies and meals to make them more interesting at All Recipes Australia, Taste.com.au and the Coles website just to name a couple of the many available sites.

Once you’ve decided on your menu, all that’s left is to make the shopping list to ensure you have the ingredients for whatever it is you’ve decided to make. Remember it doesn’t need to be complex. Simplicity is a great guide to follow!

Here’s a link to the Healthy Food Guide’s 7 day meal planner that should help you to plan out your meals for the week and create a shopping list from the plan. Be sure to let me know if you’d like assistance with this!

Also keep an eye out for their 5pm Panic recipes that take less than 30 minutes to prepare. I love that they also give you a Nutrition Information Panel which not only makes working out the carbs for our diabetes easier, but also lets us know if the saturated fats and sodium levels are suitable for us.

The monthly magazine also offers meal plan ideas. I subscribe to it as there are many other hints and tips for healthy eating, and all the recipes are approved by dietitians.

If YOU are a great planner of meals, we’d love you to share your methods in case it helps others who may struggle with the idea.

Good luck! :)

Sally.

Sally Marchini

Sally is the Social Media Dietitian with Diabetes Counselling Online, owner of her private practice (Marchini Nutrition), and has had type 1 diabetes for close to 40 years and coeliac disease for many years too.

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It’s all in your p.o.v..changing perspectives

Today is likely to be one of the hottest days on record in Adelaide. It is also going to be the hottest day of any city in the world today, according to the forecasters. How do people handle something like this?

The answer lies largely in how people are situated, and what their outlook on life is.

My neighbours, who are a group of single men living in a Share House with a couple of bedroom airconditioners, were out early this morning polishing the old Mercedes when I went for my ‘diabetes stroll’. We exchanged a few words re the weather, and one of them said, ‘We’re off to Africa, it’s cooler there! Want to come with us?” Here is my mental image of what my day would look like if I’d accepted..

Africaaa
Africaaa

The Adelaide City Council has opened the air conditioned city bus shelter 24 hours all week, & invited the homeless to sleep there. They are providing free cold water. The Charities are working hard too, free lunch & a movie every day. And some of the homeless are cheerfully heading to the free Libraries after the movie, so they can stay in the a/c there. The city is doing its best to look after the less fortunate. I saw a homeless man last night on the TV news being interviewed- he was remarkably cheerful, optimistic, & resilient in his outlook.

Throughout the State, Volunteers are donning fireproof clothing, or volunteering to provide drinks & food for firefighters. With a number of firefronts to manage, people are managing on minimal sleep & in appalling conditions to ‘serve & protect’ the lives & property of strangers. How do they keep it up?

In their personal lives, people are offering help to family, friends & strangers. They are providing shade & water for wild birds & animals, sharing taxis with strangers & space in their homes for neighbours without a/c. They are calling elderly relatives with reminders to ‘keep cool, keep drinking’. They are voluntarily using less electricity in their homes by cooling only necessary areas, in order to avoid the dreaded ‘load shedding’ that threatens.

I have been thinking about this today in the context of the Global online diabetes community. More and more I am seeing the support given to other ‘people with diabetes’: by strangers to each other, simply because we share a common bond: we have diabetes, or we are caring for someone with diabetes- or both. Because it’s one thing to be a caring Health professional, & very important too. And it’s another thing to be able to ‘speak with’ and be heard by ‘someone like me’- someone who is also living this Diabetic life, every single day. Some of this occurs on Twitter, with many Diabetes related online communities. Others are comfortable on ‘bookface’, & we have special interest groups which you may find helpful yourself. Some are Open groups, you can simply join. Others are ‘closed’: that is for the protection of its members, who feel comfortable sharing worries & advice with others who are similarly placed with respect to diabetes. With the ‘closed’ groups, you can request to join, and a group Admin wil review your public profile, & possibly send you a clarifying question by PM.

Here are some of them:

diabetes.counselling

MenWithDiabetes

pregnancyparentingdiabetes

diabetesandfood

parents

diabetesweightmatters ; ruraldiabetes/

You may be just the person who is needed in a Group: your perspective on your diabetes might be just what someone else needs to hear: we are all different, & we are all the same. No matter what type of diabetes you have, or how long you have had it, in this century, in the times we live in, we Diabetics have never been more connected with each other. We can give and find support like no one before us in the History of the World has been able to.

” All of us are human beings first. We are all sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends and lovers. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad; worry and wonder what life is all about.

Then, we are people living with diabetes” Helen Edwards

All of us are human beings first. We are sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, bothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends and lovers. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad, worry and wonder what life is all about. – See more at: http://www.diabetescounselling.com.au/uncategorized/people-politics-and-pancreases/#sthash.GANsISUe.dpuf(people politics and pancreases)

(people, politics, and pancreases)

Helen Wilde

Helen has been the mother of a Type 1 diabetic since 1979, and has had Type 2 diabetes herself since 2001. She has been a Senior Counsellor with www.diabetescounselling.com.au since 2002.

 

of us are human beings first. We are sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, bothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends and lovers. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad, worry and wonder what life is all about. – See more at: http://www.diabetescounselling.com.au/uncategorized/people-politics-and-pancreases/#sthash.GANsISUe.dpuf

All of us are human beings first. We are sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, bothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends and lovers. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad, worry and wonder what life is all about.

Then, we are people living with diabetes.

– See more at: http://www.diabetescounselling.com.au/uncategorized/people-politics-and-pancreases/#sthash.GANsISUe.dpuf

All of us are human beings first. We are sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, bothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends and lovers. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad, worry and wonder what life is all about.

Then, we are people living with diabetes.

– See more at: http://www.diabetescounselling.com.au/uncategorized/people-politics-and-pancreases/#sthash.GANsISUe.dpuf

All of us are human beings first. We are sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, bothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends and lovers. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad, worry and wonder what life is all about.

Then, we are people living with diabetes.

– See more at: http://www.diabetescounselling.com.au/uncategorized/people-politics-and-pancreases/#sthash.GANsISUe.dpuf

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