Shock of a life time – miracles to happen

[simoneParticipant]

Where do I start?
I used this site years ago 2004 ish.
Well back then I was married and was trying to get pregnant. I couldn’t get pregnant and my husband and I separated while deciding to start IVF.
He had very low sperm count and the doctors told us we had little chance to conceive especially with my medical issues thrown in – thyroid trouble, very brittle diabetes, very infrequent periods. I could go for 5 months without a period.
Anyway, I have never used contraception religiously in any of my adult relationships as I had always wanted a family.
I have been with my current partner for 3 years and knew he didn’t want children due to already having 2 and his age. This was great for me as I truly believed I was infertile – especially finding out recently that my ex hubbby had a son last year with no intervention and pretty soon after they meet.

Well, a week ago I found out was 19 1/2 weeks pregnant !!!!!
I am now 21w 1d …. MIRACLE SHOCK OF ALLTIME
How could I be pregnant when everyone basically thought I was infertile and be 19 1/2 weeks at not know?????!!!!!
I conceived a few weeks after my 41st birthday.
I went through a major grieving period after my birthday because I had finally decided to really let go of the hope of ever having kids (41 was my last cut off age)

I am calling uot for all the support I can get from here. The last week has been vey emotional for me.

Maccas I think I communicated a lot with you in 2004 ??
Is there anyone over here in Perth WA I can talk too?

Lots more to share if your interested.

Big hugs
Simone

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