It’s a given, around Christmas time to experience a rollercoaster of emotions. For some it is the most dreaded time of the year, for others it’s the time they love most – then there are the majority who are plonked in the middle of the scale and just go along for the ride.
People are grumpier, busier, stressed, complain about money, complain about family. It’s a difficult holiday that is growing more and more materialistic each year.
One thing that people don’t express enough is the gift of giving. Sure, that’s all Christmas is – giving, giving, giving – then complaining about money. However most are not giving for the right reasons, it becomes an obligatory gift, one that lacks sentimental value and love.
So I may have spoiled my loved ones this year, to be honest I couldn’t help it and as my friend explained to me the ‘Languages of Love’ how everyone expresses their love in different ways, I was told my way was to give generously. I thought this was a beautiful thing and it got me thinking about giving and love.
At work we did a Kris Kringle, ironically me (the trainee) got the boss, go figure! I was stumped at what to get her with a $10.00 budget. Then I remembered a gift I had received for my 21st, it was a ‘breakfast for the school’ on me in South Africa, a country that I have a love affair with.
So, this year for my Kris Kringle, I got my boss a $10.00 voucher from Oxfam so that in her name – a family will receive water for a whole month.
This year, my message to you all is if you are giving – make sure it is sent with love, it doesn’t need to be overly excessive in cost but if the meaning is there, they will see it and it will be cherished a whole lot more – I can assure you.
Another thing is, take some time to reflect on not just your life, but what is going on in the world, all the major moments we as a world have gone through, from the missing Malaysian Airlines to the sadly lost Cricketer Phillip Hughes, we as a world have had many heartaches this year and continue to do so. Think of all the families Christmas Day that will go without food and water.
It is time to start living more outside our own immediate lives, start thinking about what else is going on in the world and if there is anything you can do to help. After all we are one world, undefined by walls and should start living a more ‘community’ based life. This Christmas, wish your neighbour you never speak to a happy New Year or tip the struggling busker and give back to our world.
And if you are struggling for gift ideas, the Oxfam shop has lots of ideas where you can give two gifts at once!
Until next time,
Georgia














